Doc, I can vouch for my own sensations only, but, yes, I enjoy the anal stimulation related to the twitching and flexing of my starfish both before and after a good bowel movement. In non-emergency situations I enjoy the anticipation of a good shit and experience the aftermath as definite pleasure. I will deliberately flex my asshole after downloading a nice turd/turds, and I enjoy the turtlehead antics of my bowels beforehand. This all adds up to a reasonable description or simulation of the 'whemying' phenomenon, outlined by the good doctor. I do know that I have enjoyed these sensations since childhood and that I am not embarrassed to reveal that my very first masturbatory experience at the age of four included manipulating a crayon in and out of my little chute with one hand and penile stimulation with the other. For me, the anal region has always been an erogenous zone.

Hope this info helps and is of interest, Doc.

Personally I have not conciously done this, but I feel no shame in admitting that there is little more satisfying than a large, healthy, poo. Oh man, does that mean I like it in the butt?! Noooo!!!! poop made me ghey!

I often will deliberately delay getting up and going to to the toilet to take a crap. Although I suppose that the physical sensation has some relevance here, I believe it is more a matter of delaying the inevitable simply to savour the knowledge that the poo is going to arrive very shortly; this, for me, is similar to the way I often savour lying in my bed after a long & tiring day simply because I enjoy the knowledge that I am falling asleep slowly and sweetly, I don't rush to fall asleep simply because I'm sleepy.

Another final factor for me is that if I let it build up, I believe that I can generate more explosive effects on the can. This is a benefit best explored in a public washroom.

Every kid wants to fuck his mother? what an asshole!!!

Sounds like you just might be in the market for a butt-plug, my friend.

I'm a female who can vouch for that sort of thing being pleasureable... you know, the anticipation for when you unload a really soul-satisying log.

However, I beg to the brethren to please remember the clitoris.

Or something.

Love,

Unkochan

While I enjoy pooing as much as anyone, I don't find it "orgasmic." Unless you loosly define "orgasm" as general good feelings. Pooping is a non-sexual feeling of enjoyment, same as a head massage or a warm bath or ice cream -- feels good, but not necessarily in my willy.

So I am hesitant to support your equivalence of pooping and sexual gratification, regardless of Freud's theories suggesting such.

That being said, there is nothing that feels better than getting out the poo that's been hurting. In fact, I think there's a direct correlation: the more it's been hurting, the better it feels to get out. So yes, theoretically, holding it in longer will make it feel better.

I don't recall doing that intentionally. I've held it while watching TV -- because I didn't want to leave -- or dashing home from the subway, but I've never held it for the sake of making it feel better coming out.

I love the feeling of a nice turd rolling out of my poop-bay. I have to also say it's not orgasmic at all...I've never thought of combining the two things, though maybe I should?

Oh yea baby, could you give me a blowjob as I take a massive stink-shit?

My Dear Collegue:

While I never willfully engage in "whemying" myself, yes I do know some who do. And since you asked for information regarding others who practice "whemying," I will provide you with an anecdote relative to the subject.

A patient of mine suffers from an anal fixation which is manifest by self-infliction of extreme forms of what you call "whemying." For example, my patient, shall we call him Holden Rector to protect his true identity, graves the feelings you ascribe to "whemying" so acutely that he frequently goes fishing at night in salt marshes for eels. When he catches a particularly lively, adequately-sized speciment, he immediatedly decapitates the creature, and deftly guides its still wriggling, slimey, headless body up his anus.

While eeling is quite legal in North Carolina, assuming one has the proper licenses, etc., Holden has been apprehended on occasion by conservation officers, and subsequently prosecuted under animal cruelty codes.

In the interest of time, I will forego additional revelations regarding "whemying" except to say that Freud was not the first to relate the retention of anal effluent to childhood neuroses. The Stoic philosopher, Scatolius Maximus, circa 350 BCE, is credited with saying, "You gotta know when to hold'm and know when to fold'm."

This Evan Moore guy is fuckin funny, destined to be the greatest PoopReport commenter/reporter of all time!

yeah, that evan moore thing was fucking hilarious. i wish there were more funny posts like that one.

No, I don't use my feces as a dildo for my asshole! Not that I use one, btw I'am not gay, I was just kidding, I wrote this as a spoof, so just me saying shit=dildo as a joking response to Dave's little story. Don't worry I'am not gay.

I have to admit when I am at work and realy need to finish a project I hold off as long as possible. Once toxic smells start escaping and the pressure has built up to such a degree that diamonds are forming in my intestines, then the release feels fantastic.

P.S

JoeLee - You are SO gay. Its very obvious.

After a moment of reflection, I have decided to jump from a railroad trestle because I can't bear to live with myself any longer.

Just hold? I think if you aint getting pleasure, you best all practise a bit more? Prostrate gland needs stimulated a bit (& regular) to grow to full potential ;-)

all aboard the mantrain...... that is a great email!!

kudos!

Whemying is what I call "the move". Although I've never found orgasmic pleasure in it, I simply enjoy the challenge of not shitting my pants.

I thought you killed yourself crappercritic

I have never heard of "Whemy".However i do enjoy cramming things in my rear, screwdriver handles, size"D" batteries and (my favorite) frozen Snickers bars!

I will wait a few minutes first, but that is so I don't have to push hard, and I get it all out at once.

Funny story, but Sigmund Freud is a big part of what's wrong with modern psychology. To think that professionals are actually serious about the theories of a man who did enough cocaine to kill a small horse....

scat man!, apparently I can't actually DO anything. So I'll just sit here and wait for the next suicidal loser to jump off the trestle. So I can make disparaging comments about how he just jumped off instead of doing a swan dive.

Lady Ballbuster, modern psychology is still full of wackos, but there are a few people that actually do things correctly. In Frued's day, blaming something other than demons was a revolutionary idea. He screwed everything else up, but by showing that demons were a myth, he did one thing right. If only he could take back all the dumb crap and coke, we would be much better off....

Slim: Personally I find it more appropriate to blame it on demons rather than to blame it on one's mom. After all, demons can be exorcized. As for the cocaine excuse, I dismiss that out of hand ~ should be likewise disregard anything said by Greek philosophers simply because they drank wine from decanters glazed with lead?

Slim: Personally I find it more appropriate to blame it on demons rather than to blame it on one's mom. After all, demons can be exorcized. As for the cocaine excuse, I dismiss that out of hand ~ should (we) likewise disregard everything said by Greek philosophers simply because they drank wine from decanters glazed with lead?

I AM AS I TYPE HOLDING IN A CRAP FOR THAT EXACT FEELING TOUGH IT CAN GIVE ME CHILLS IT IS NOT LIKE A ORAGASIM ITS JUST LOVELY

This is an interesting issue which I haven't seen raised before. I'll state for the record that I am female. I don't experience any pleasurable feelings from this sort of stimulation, but for me my anus and rectum are not an erogenous zone. I know that it is for a lot of people, but I don't seem to be wired that way. :)

As I said in previous conversations. Ewww!!!

Well, I suppose I enjoy 'whemying' myself. But I also as a gay man enjoy, shall we say, being (consentually) sodomised! Other than that, I enjoy defecation as well.

this is sick and disgusting!

I enjoy the release of taking on good dump that feeling that all is well and there are no bothers. It is peasce to me and to let her rip is the funniest part of taking a sgood dump. The zen of the moment happens when I first let go when I can sense and experience the moment of dumping and exist in that moment alone. There has to be some sort of a chemicl change or release into the blood stream of something. Then again it is just a good f...g dump.

this webpage scares me. interesting theory there doctor

Just the fact that you named this feeling "Whemying", makes me feel uncomfortable about you, good sir.

That's just a plain, weird name for something.

ok... my wife likes to take her time on the toilet... big poo i guess ? but her favorite thing is the shower massager in pulse mode... fuk... i think she is gonna wake the dead in the graveyard next door sometimes.... broke my ear drums w/ screams of pleasure !!

Tell your wife to get a hot tub. The jet cycle really works. I suppose that's why my sister always tells me her hot tub is broken when I come over.

Doug, I do whemying all the time. It, too, gives me great pleasure. THe pressure is sometimes so intense it gives me an orgasm, though I only remember it happened once or twice. This feeling of sexual pleasure form holding feces started when I was 7. I was in the hospital getting a hernia operation. Before the operation, I was given an enema. I shall NEVER forget that incredible sensation of having to hold it all in till the inevitable release!!! In fact, it was the beginning of my fansination with all things associated with bowel movements.

Yes, I can say that I have done it and it does indeed feel pleasurable. This does not mean you are gay, however. I am very much so straight and am in a commited relationship with a woman. I can honestly say that I have no attraction to men or any homosexual desires. Fact is: anal stimulation is pleasurable, and "whamying" does feel pretty good.

Doesntmatter,

You don't have to be gay to enjoy anal stimulation. Anyway, no one alluded to the G word. Why are you so defensice. Perhaps you are lurking in the closet???

I figured I was the only one who does this... until now. I would have to say it's a mixture of pain and pleasure. I've never been one for a strong stomach, which may be how this ( for me ) developed. It can be very uncomfortable in a public situation, but in private where I have something to lean on or help hold everything in the pleasure is intense.

I enjoy it as well, perhaps a bit too much sometimes. Are there any dangers (short and long term) to holding it in, such as a ruptured sphincter or some kind of colon dysfunction?

"I simply enjoy the challenge of not shitting my pants" HAHA thats friggin sweet. Thats like my new catch phrase for the week.

Sometimes feces is soft and sometimes hard but it is always deserving of a big hug !!!

I have often wondered if the gas isn't playing a role in pleasure then it should be dealt with as it surely encourages the poop to migrate out of the rectal area, hence ending the whemy due to evacuation. Perhaps some kind of surgical tube or release valve to bypass the path it must snake around the turd.
This format could in theory be less invasive than a standard enema. Just a thought.

it is pleasurable sometimes. like a backwards, calmer version of anal.

First off-- where did the word "whemying" come from? How is that pronounced? Seems a little odd....
As for the act itself, yes, I have and do. Not for some sick shit fetish reason, but for the control, anticipation and release. And not done to any extreme either, more like someone may eat lightly or not at all to enahnce enjoyment of an upcoming big meal. Like Dave said, for a physical good feeling like being sated after a big meal, a massage, or warm bath (I also like sneezes!) but they have no sexual component to them whatsoever.

Some of the posts above illustrate the aversion to admitting you like the feeling of taking a good dump since apparently enjoying the sensation of the nerves of your rectum makes you gay. Meh. I had a high school boyfriend that was so embarrassed that he liked me rimming him because he thought he shouldn't and it made him gay. How does it make you gay if it's a woman doing it? Most guys have a "good for the goose but not the gander" metality about that spot.

While I experience just physical releif from taking a shit, I can separate the erogenous from the act of defecation. I DO like anal stim in other, sexual ways, but that has to be COMPLETELY with the absence of any fecal filth! That is NOT part of that sexual gratification! If I or anyone else is going to treat that zone like an amusement park, it must be totally clean! Guh! I can't think of anything grosser!

So, basically, my point is: You can find pleasure in crapping, and sex, and anal stim. but they can DEFINITELY be separated into different physical sensations and pleasures.

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'Hey that sounds pretty nasty, how about a courtesy flush over there?' (AP1)

Hmmmm first of all I can not believe you guys giving out better sex advice to the wives using a shower massager or hot tub jets. Are your tongues broken? Sigh noone but me I guess likes to eat pussy anymore. But I digress here lets talk about this whemy. For me it depends on many factors. I do like to hold it in sometimes when I am off from work and have that luxury or if I wake up at 4am and find that the beast wants out then I become anal retentive. Yes it does feel much better when all of that poo and gas is released and I do enjoy the sensation. I would not however compare it to an orgasm. I would get more pleasure from getting rimmed then from taking a crap thats for sure.
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The Thunderous Crapper 63 Enjoying home toilet advantage since 2004!

Oh? Thunderous? Your tongue is skilled? (ears are perked :P ) Always good to have an advocate to the cause.... :)

And what does that mean that we like the rushing warm water over a ladies' button? Does that automatically mean we like water sports? No. That's just my point, boudaries getting blurred by bodily functions and sexual gratification.

But to get back to the Freud discussion/bashing, the oral fixation comes first, so....
Naw, Siggie was just a guy who spoke with a lot of repressed Victorian-aged women who could not cope with copping to a "shameful" sensation. AND he was first high on heroin and then found coke to be a "miracle cure" for heroin addiction. (gotta wonder how his poop was-- first opiate hardened and then coke slidey? Ew.) And all the while proclaiming sweeping judgements on people's sexuality? I always wondered that at University, while getting my degree.

I DO however, agree with the stages that happen of oral and anal and whatnot, but I don't necessarily think that they mean anything sexual. (maybe it was just him! Like a Rorschach test or something!) Erickson and Piaget were more on the money with THAT shit!

Freud broke ground, but he broke a lot more than that--PLEASE everyone, don't take what he said literally, he was in a weird space (chemically AND historically) and has brought all sorts of raised eyebrows and shame onto those in the psychological fields!

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'Hey that sounds pretty nasty, how about a courtesy flush over there?' (AP1)

Whemying? Why the fuck is it called that lol? Weird. Anyways, yeah I hold my poop in sometimes, but I don't do it because of the anal stimulation. I hold my poop in so I can like, save up for some more poop so I can take a bigger and better dump. Everyone must know what it feels like to kind of feel like you really gotta take a crap, then when you sit down on the toilet you only get bunny turds. That sucks. I need at least two whole logs to feel like the job was really done right. Plus, if you're into real anal stimulation (I go for some anal sex occasionally) then you gotta make sure you take a nice poop followed by a nice shower before hand. You don't want any lingering turds on your partner's dick (gross!)
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Strippers Poop Too!

I noticed that there were some who were wondering as to how I came up with the word "whemying" to refer to "that good feeling that occassionally accompanies the holding in of one's poop." Well, the fact is that there is no simple answer to that question other than from the very begining (somewhere around the middle 1970's I would guess) the word "whemying" (as in to "whemy") just simply came to me....... almost as if a gift from Heaven. Other than the word "whemying" seeming (feeling like) the right word for the phenomenon in question..... there is no other reason why I chose such a word for "that really good feeling that occasionally accompanies the holding in of one's poop in his/her butt.

i've been holding my poop ever since i was like 4 or something. im 13 now and really scared because ive been trying to stop for years, but its freakin hard. yes it does feel good but im scared that itll lead to like prostate or something worse. any ideas how to stop? what should i do???

I have done this for as long as I can remember. It feels good to hold it in, letting it push against my anus. I am a heterosexual with no interest in anal stimulation, other than this act. And unlike other posts, it isn't really the anticipation "of a good poo" that is enjoyable. It just feels good. I am glad to find that I am not the only one.

ive been whemying every since i can remember but i never had a name for it. Im a normal guy and everything but it is kinda weird--- but it does feel good, i remember when i was kid i used to go and hide places so i could whemy alone