I stand by my thoughts that this disturbed behaviour and a disturbed individual.

Suggesting he get help is a no-brainer. Beyond that, I wouldn't be hanging around this person too closely. I am highly doubtful that this is his only "secret".

TBW--I can think of less distasteful ways to micro manage one's life.

And, shit belongs below the stomach, when it comes to eating it and health ramifications. Shit, whether it belongs to you or someone else, is teeming with E. Coli and other nasty bugs that weren't meant to be anywhere near your mouth and upper GI tract.

I did entertain the notion that Nate and his "friend" were one and the same. If this is true, dude, get some help.